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Editors Rant
Gratitude = Happiness?
In this issue …
Dave’s Rave asks what price to be happy
Club News brings Gratitude in a breathtaking number of ways
Members Slot shows as Rotarians we have much to be grateful for…No regrets
Rotary World  has a RYLArian being grateful
To be Happy is to be Grateful.  Is this the price?
Ron Seeto
Dave's Rave

THE COST OF HAPPINESS REVEALED!

At our last Rotary meeting our club members shared an inspiring range of gratitude’s. 
This reminded me of a life changing month from about seven years ago.
It started when a friend asked me to participate in the “Happiness Experiment”.
This involved a group of 8 complete strangers (from across the world) becoming connected in a WhatsApp channel.
We firstly established our individual baseline of “Happiness” – done by taking the Oxford Happiness Test – a version is here.
 
Then… for 11 days, at some random time, we would each reflect on the day, and take one minute to post five gratitude’s:  Eg “I’m grateful for: flushing toilets, my family, my health, the internet, my morning coffee”.  Ideally different each day, but to repeat a few was OK too.
 
After 11 days… we added an “Enrichment” per day. An enrichment was something we saw, heard or noticed that made us feel happier, safer, more at ease, or curious, or… somehow enriched our day.  An enrichment was a version of gratitude that both involves you but is also “additive” to your soul. Eg “I am enriched by my daily conversations with my barista, who always makes me feel special.”
 
Then… for the last 10 days we had to give somebody (outside our group) a “Gracious Acknowledgement” per day.  A gracious acknowledgement is like thanking someone, that you don’t have to thank.  Eg ”I just noticed how you let that other car in – that was a nice thing to do”.  Gracious acknowledgments come from you observing and then acknowledging other people’s positive behaviour.  Not to you, but to others.  You’re not a part of the underlying event, rather, it’s your unexpected gift to someone else – sometimes a stranger.   
 
So, for the last 10 days, eight people across the globe were each sharing: 5 gratitude’s, 1 enrichment and 1 gracious acknowledgement, per day.
It was surprisingly hard.  Sometimes it felt awkward. Sometimes repetitive, and to be honest, I was occasionally desperate; trying to hit my daily tally.
 
After 31 days of practice, the world looked a better place. It was full of kind and generous people.  
The result, after re-taking the Oxford test?  I was a lot happier. 
And the cost of attaining such happiness? What do think?
Club News and Notices

NEW MEETING VENUE ?

“Change is inevitable... change is constant” - Disraeli
So for a trial, last Tuesday, we moved back to Newmarket, our home base. Alpers Lodge provided our meal and our meeting space in their White House. [President Dave invited thoughts and opinions on this venue to be sent through to him.]  He welcomed Asel’s friend Maxine and 23 of us to lunch. With ANZAC day next week, he invited each of us to express our thanks for something important to us, resulting in 24 varied, interesting and worthwhile responses.
Our speaker, our own Janette Searle, Rotary Newmarket Chair of the Rotary Foundation/WCS Committee, then brought us up to date on two of her very successful initiatives and other developments:
 

JANETTE SEARLE x 3+

Managed Moves
Arising out of her 2015 Education Research Project, investigating alternative education for 13 – 16 year olds dropping out of their schooling, she developed a very successful new model now employed by 13 Secondary schools in West Auckland. The challenge is to re-engage youth at risk. The solution is to provide wrap-around support and care through coordinators tracking everything in their lives: family, health and well-being, societal pressures, and transitions; as well as enabling them to continue with their education. This has resulted in about half of those being helped heading back into mainstream or other education and training. This changed pastoral care approach has dramatically limited the number of exclusions from the participating schools [eight, last year, rather than hundreds previously].
Such an encouraging approach has been picked up by some of the decision makers and is now being actively employed elsewhere. May it continue to grow and develop!
 
Take My Hands
In 2010 Janette became aware of many artificial limbs from the AF Service, capable of being recycled, ending up as junk. 
Establishing a Charitable Trust for the purpose, she arranged for the first shipment to be sent to Lahore. The project has never looked back. 9 different countries, 12 recipient partners and 44 equipment and transport partners later, Take My Hands works mainly in the Pacific. Suitable health materials are sourced, containers are loaded and identified needs in the recipient countries met. 
Since the Trust’s foundation, equipment worth over $2m has been provided at a tenth of that cost. 
 
Other Developments
Janette then outlined three other important developments with which she is associated:
  • The mechanical hospital bed undertaken with UC and Fisher & Paykel 
  • Infection Control using the Floor and Surface cleaner she has produced
  • A portable dental clinic she has sourced in Northland, to be shipped to the Pacific
An impressive presentation from a very committed and passionate member of our Club. Members questions and acclamation expressed our appreciation for her infectious enthusiasm. Thank you, Janette – tremendous achievements.
 

Dates for Your Diary

No meeting 25th April [Anzac Day]
2nd May - Ellerslie, with the Club visit from our 9920 DG Allan Smith.
9th May - Remuera Golf Club with Roger Partridge from the NZ Initiative, and attendees from the Science Forum
16th May – Ellerslie, with Sarah Page from the Kindness Collective, and attendees from the RYPEN weekend.
27th – 31st May 2023 -   RI Melbourne Conference

NO REGRETS Happiness = Gratitude

Out & About with Rotary Newmarket in pictures...PLEASE SEND BIG WIG ED YOUR PIX or put up with more selfies
1. Past presidents Night out at Spiga Remuera Village
2. PP Night introducing our chef & owner Fabrizio and hostess Taryne
3. PP Night No Regrets grace from Alimac
4. Good Friday Groove Waiheke pork belly & partying with our glorious leader Dave
5. GFG remember Geoff Wake?
6. ANZAC Brisbane weekend Detox Retox Repeat big wig ed with BFF Sharon
7 Pink Fizz from Brisbane for Liv McIver
 
 
 
Photo Albums
club meeting why, what,how,when & where
Matariki District Conference 2022
RYLA Dinner 2022
Rotary World
Rotary World RYLA Elevate Amy Strang

GRATEFUL :  AMY STRANG x RYLA ELEVATE  

Please find attached a report from Amy Strang covering her experience at RYLA Elevate in Australia.
I think this could be worthy of publication across the Newmarket bulletin and the District news.
Just by way of introduction we assisted nine people to RYLA Elevate in Sydney which took place in the Blue Mountains in March.
Eight participants (listed Below) and one leader (Grace Cussell) (nine out of twenty six were from 9920, 35%, across Australia and New Zealand came from 9920 !!.
All of these candidates are very high calibre and a credit to New Zealand. Newmarket Rotary can be proud they are leading the way in District 9920 in supporting this initiative.
 
Amy Strang • Ariana Andrews • Chrystal Hayr • Mariam Malek • Kevin Choi • Will Creedy • Jack Keeys • Kate Martin
 
regards Peter Ross Chairman 0274854572 Peter.ross@prconsult.co.nz
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DG Allan Smith - 9920 Update
Ellerslie Race Course
May 02, 2023
12:15 PM – 1:30 PM
 
Salvation Army Food Packing
May 03, 2023
9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
 
Reading Enrichment Programme
Aorere College
May 04, 2023 11:00 AM -
Jul 06, 2023 1:00 PM
 
Evening Club Meeting: Roger Partridge
Remuera Golf Club
May 09, 2023
6:15 PM – 9:00 PM
 
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May 10, 2023
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